Trolls are everywhere online. No one can escape them and everyone hates them, but what if trolls are only trolls because they hate themselves? We all know the old adage that hurt people hurt people, and internet bullies are no different. People can take all the pain and suffering they’ve been feeling and use it to fuel their hate comments. The algorithms prioritize and push that hate, and with the added bonus of being able to hide behind anonymous accounts, it’s never been easy to take out your internal pain on random internet strangers. But internal pain or not, it’s still a load of bullshit to unload your suffering to whoever crosses your path online.

The psychology behind troll accounts [2:22]

Even trolls can hurt your feelings [5:12]

Anonymity makes us brave [8:48]

More accountability is a good thing [13:30]

When interest turns into obsession [18:03]

A hate-following epidemic [22:14]

Haters aren’t going anywhere [28:06]

Learning to tune out the comments [30:42]

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We’re pretty sensitive to cheating and the harm it causes a person (we’ll give you three guesses as to why) so we found ourselves wondering if are crushes ever okay while you’re still in a relationship? There’s no stopping the rush of feelings when it comes to having a crush, but we do have some say over our actions and every single one of us knows when too far becomes too far. Fantasizing may not be a red flag, but hiding and secrecy sure are. Look, when it comes to crushes, we think the best course of action is pretty damn simple: don’t fucking do anything that you wouldn’t want your partner to do to you.

Finding formal attire [1:22]

Focusing on our potential for finances [4:27]

You can’t control a crush [7:47]

Is having a crush mean something is wrong in your relationship? [10:12]

An emotional attachment is a slippery slope [12:17]

Are you hiding this person from your partner? [16:45]

Pulling away from a chemical rush [18:50]

When does fantasy go too far? [21:36]

Drawing the line at progression [23:41]

The grass is always greener [26:10]

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Knowing your partner’s sexual fantasies has the possibility to be really really hot, or really really off-putting. Fantasy can mean a lot of things to different people—some may want their fantasies to stay in their heads, and some may want to try them out—so if you and your lover aren’t aligned, shit can get tricky. Sex is vulnerable enough already, and if being honest about what gets you off brings you closer together, we’re all for that. But if you uncover some freaky secrets… just know that you can never unlearn them.

Mid-day masturbation [3:01]

The effort of sexting [4:36]

AI in advertising [7:53]

Sharing your fantasies with your partner [13:10]

There are some kinks you may not want to know [15:34]

Knowing too much about your partner [19:14]

What’s the utility in sharing? [21:26]

Minimum effective dosing [24:44]

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