In this deeply personal Phoenix Unscripted reflection recorded in 2024, I share a story that has quietly shaped much of my life: the belief that I wasn’t good enough.
Sometimes those beliefs don’t arrive all at once.
They form slowly, moment by moment—through experiences, comments, expectations, and disappointments that leave tiny imprints on our identity.
A missed opportunity.
A message about your body.
A voice of authority telling you who you are.
Over time, those moments can begin to form a story that runs quietly in the background of our lives.
In this reflection beside the fire, I revisit some of the moments that planted that belief in me—from teenage disappointments to early experiences in the military—and the realization that I’ve spent years chasing a version of myself that always felt just out of reach.
But on that day, something inside me shifted.
I realized I’m tired of carrying that story.
And maybe the only way forward is to start pulling those weeds out of the garden of my life—one belief at a time.
In this reflection, we explore:
• How the belief “I’m not good enough” can take root over time
• The subtle ways institutions and authority figures shape our identity
• What it feels like to chase a version of yourself that always seems out of reach
• Why unlearning old beliefs is a slow, intentional process
• The moment we decide we’re done carrying the weight of those stories
This episode isn’t about fixing anything.
It’s simply an honest reflection about the stories we carry—and what it might look like to finally set some of them down.
So take a breath, settle in, and join me beside the fire.
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