Most moms think discipline is about getting kids to listen.
But in this episode, I’m showing you what actually works.
Real moments, real science, real tools.

If you’ve ever wondered how to discipline without yelling or losing yourself… this one will open your eyes.

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❤️ Related Studies & Articles You May Find Helpful:
→Brain Insights and Well-Being

https://drdansiegel.com/brain-insights-and-well-being-3/

→Putting Feelings Into Words

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-9280.2007.01916.x

→Mindfulness-Based Childbirth and Parenting Education: Promoting Family Mindfulness During the Perinatal Period

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10826-009-9313-7

→Serve and Return

https://developingchild.harvard.edu/key-concept/serve-and-return/

→Anterior pituitary cell networks

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0091302212000349?via%3Dihub#s0140

→Effects of stress throughout the lifespan on the brain, behaviour and cognition

https://www.nature.com/articles/nrn2639

→Stress signalling pathways that impair prefrontal cortex structure and function

https://www.nature.com/articles/nrn2648

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In this episode, I share the moment I finally understood that my anger wasn’t about my child...

We’re talking burnout, survival mode, nervous system overload, and why the smallest things feel like the last straw when your cup is empty.

You’ll learn what’s actually happening in your brain when you snap, why it’s not your fault, and simple tools that help you reset in the middle of the chaos.

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❤️ Related Studies & Articles You May Find Helpful:

→ American Psychological Association — Stress in America Report: https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress

Stress signalling pathways that impair prefrontal cortex structure and function: https://www.nature.com/articles/nrn2648

→ Mindfulness-Based Childbirth and Parenting Education: Promoting Family Mindfulness During the Perinatal Period: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10826-009-9313-7

→ How Gratitude Changes You and Your Brain: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_gratitude_changes_you_and_your_brain

→ Parenting in America Today. Mental health concerns top the list of worries for parents; most say being a parent is harder than they expected: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/01/24/parenting-in-america-today/

→ The polyvagal theory: New insights into adaptive reactions of the autonomic nervous system: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3108032/

→ Harvard Health — Understanding the Stress Response: https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/understanding-the-stress-response

→ The Effects of Sleep Loss on Medical Residents' Emotional Reactions to Work Events: a Cognitive-Energy Model: https://academic.oup.com/sleep/article-abstract/28/1/47/2696716?redirectedFrom=fulltext&login=false
→ Putting Feelings Into Words: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-9280.2007.01916.x

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Trying to be the “perfect mom” almost broke me.
In this video, I’m sharing what it really looks like to parent without perfectionism — the messy, freeing, real-life version.
You’ll learn:
✨ The 3 truths that helped me let go of guilt and control
✨ Why repair matters more than getting it right every time
✨ How progress, not perfection, builds real connection

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Tired of every meal, bedtime, or “no” turning into a battle? You’re not alone—I’ve been there too. In this video, I’m sharing 5 Positive Discipline tricks that helped me avoid power struggles instantly. These simple shifts (like offering choices, using fewer words, and letting go of the need to “win”) transformed the way I parent and created more peace at home.

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Gentle parenting looks beautiful on paper—calm voices, deep connection, emotional safety. But the truth? It’s hard, it’s messy, and sometimes it feels impossible.

In this video, I’m breaking down 11 brutal truths about gentle parenting that no one told me until it was almost too late. These are the parts of parenting that don’t make it to Instagram—the exhaustion, the guilt, the doubts—and the lessons I’ve learned that are saving my sanity (and my relationship with my child).

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I’ll never forget the day my daughter had one of those tantrums — the kind that feels like it’s never going to end. Nothing I said or did worked, and I felt completely helpless. Then, a simple sentence popped into my head that completely changed how I handle those moments.
So, if you’re tired of feeling triggered, overwhelmed, and unsure how to respond, this mindset shift can be your lifeline in the heat of the moment.

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I disappeared for two years… and here’s why.

This isn’t the story I thought I’d tell, but it’s the one I needed to.
After my divorce, I carried so much shame that I silenced myself — I thought I had to disappear to survive.
But I’m done hiding.

I’m no longer ashamed of my story, because it made me who I am.
And if you’ve ever felt like you had to hold it all together or disappear just to make it through — this one’s for you.
You’re not alone, and you don’t have to pretend to be okay anymore.

This is the beginning of Keeping Moms Real — coming back real, raw, and ready to rebuild… with you.

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Motherhood isn’t meant to be perfect — it’s meant to be real.

Welcome to Keeping Moms Real — a soft landing for overwhelmed moms.
Hosted by Karen Chirivi, a Positive Discipline educator and mindset coach, this channel is your space to breathe, reconnect, and remember that being a “good mom” isn’t about doing it all — it’s about doing what matters.

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